“IT’S A CIVIL MATTER”

This particular phrase, uttered by legions of law enforcement officers across California (and the rest of the US) whenever they don't want to do their job, is one of the most irksome, irritating, and completely abused phrases in the law enforcement lexicon.  This stock phrase is used because most people don't know what the law [...]

Signs it is time to engage a parenting coordinator

Diane L. Danois, J.D. Divorce Coach and Mediator Signs It's Time to Engage a Parenting Coordinator   The signs indicating that it's time to hire an attorney are typically readily apparent: You just learned that your spouse is cheating... again. Your former spouse is withholding child support payments... again. You want a divorce, but your [...]

ten myths about parent coordinators

If you are co-parenting with your former spouse, perhaps the term "co-parent" seems to be more of an oxymoron than a reality. Do any of these statements sound familiar? · "You were supposed to drop off the kids by 5 p.m., and it's now 5:30 p.m. You are always late. I'll see you in Court." [...]

Personality Disorders in Family Court (an excerpt)

Bill Eddy‚ L.C.S.W.‚ Esq.. Personality Disorders Appearing In Family Court Probably the most prevalent personality disorder in family court is Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) — more commonly seen in women (now 2008 research indicates BPD is equally men and women). BPD may be characterized by wide mood swings‚ intense anger even at benign events‚ idealization [...]

The intersection of law and psychology

Attorney Greg Herman wrote series of articles I am linking here on the interplay between law and psychology for the Wisconsin Bar Journal. Attorney Mark Baer wrote this article in 2011 which I found both wise and compassionate in its description of the divorce process.  He states, and I agree, that the adversarial process destroys [...]

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